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The spirit of Chat Whisper, is a chat site, where good people, can come together, and have good fun, with a minimum of hassle and stress. In short, it is a 'no nonsense' environment. In concert with this, is our roleplay ideology.


In the most general of terms, we look at each person who chats here, as a real, live, breathing person. We expect that people will treat each other accordingly. The fact that we might role-play a fight together, a war, or other things that are part of role-play storylines, does not change the fact, that around here, the person counts for more than the play.


Roleplay is a cooperative exercise among chatters here... a way to enjoy an escape from the hassles of the real world. You 'win' at our style of roleplay, by simply having fun with good friends, and making good friends in the course of having fun. They may be friends you never meet in real life... you may never even get to talk to them on the phone. But they may still be friends that last a lifetime.:)

Here, moderators do not draw a distinction between the character and the individual. Everyone that chats here, is expected to be an adult, and to be fully accountable for their actions in our rooms. They'll help you and provide tips to aid you in fitting in to the picture... and they'll also make sure that nobody tries to use 'valid roleplay' as an excuse to just make others miserable by breaking our conduct rules or their spirit.


If there is a problem, moderators will evaluate the entire situation and deal with it accordingly. On Gor, the moderators are usually the room leaders.


Some roleplay guidelines to help you operate in the spirit of Chat Whisper...


  • Review the rules of the room you are about to enter. This includes conduct rules, role-play rules/assumptions, and combat rules.

    Each site and each room has its own expectations. Operate within those expectations... not just by the letter of the rules, but their spirit as well.


  • If a realm allows you more than one character to play within it, do not abuse this privilege by being deceptive or causing trouble using this role-play tool. (A note.. Online Gor does not permit a chatter to have more than one character at a time!)

  • Stay in the context of the realm in your role-play interactions.

    On Gor, it would be 'breaking the theme' to show up on a horse, toting a 45 and shooting up the place.


  • Real life based conversations... most of our rooms do NOT prohibit inhabitants from just talking about each other's real life.

    That said, please know when to confine such conversations to PM. If a major role-play storyline is going on... that's not the time to be publicly talking about that brand new car you bought today in the room. Just take that conversation with your friend to Private Messages. That's why we keep the PM feature open to you... so everyone can use the same chat space for their enjoyment at the same time.


  • Be cooperative with one another.

    If roleplay is going in a totally wrong direction for you, find a compromise with the people you're role playing with. IF for some reason, there's a problem finding an acceptable compromise, involve your room leader..


    The room leader will assist in these cases. (Most 'glitches' in role play, are hashed out in PM.) Also... if you see that your role playing partner(s) are finding difficulties
    in the roleplay... be open minded to help them out. Maybe it's going in a direction they're not wild about, maybe they're confused. Use that PM feature to help iron those things out so everyone can end the role play interaction on a positive note. (i.e. have fun)


  • Do not partake in 'Kamikaze' roleplay.

    Kamikaze roleplay, is where you just charge on in your great adventure without any forethought, or regard to the upheaval you might be causing. If you're going to raid the Tuchuks, it pays to send a scout ahead to peek to be sure the Ubar isn't speaking to His people about a problem that needs a solution, or an FC ceremony or something else.

    Be courteous... be positive... think ahead, and make sure your roleplay that you want to kick off, is going to be a blessing, rather than a curse to those who will wind up involved. It's a losing deal, if everyone involved fails to have fun.


  • Not all rooms on Chat Whisper are 'roleplay' rooms.

    Obviously, rooms in Gor, and Amber Woods and so on, are roleplay rooms. However, there are rooms where roleplay is NOT a focus. The reality rooms come to mind immediately. BDSM rooms here, also come to mind. There may be 'superficial' trappings of roleplay, but these are more like lifestyle rooms.


    Feel free here on Chat Whisper, to log in as an Observer by appending an "~O~" to the end of your handle when entering a room or realm on our site that you're not familiar with. Observe and if you have questions, ask the senior person in the room. (Hint... they'll usually greet you and identify themselves to you and invite you to ask questions you might have while you enjoy observing the room)


  • Remember at all times... real life always comes first. Here on Chat Whisper, it is customary to support this truth, and to encourage each other to tend to real life issues first and foremost. After all, how good can your online time be, if you're not paying your bills, taking care of your family, and doing what you need to, to have a good real life? It's hard to chat, if you can't pay your bills and be healthy with a good home life.

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